Facebook frightens me

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Facebook is hot, but The Insider is going cold on it. Maybe it’s an age thing, but the buzz has waned to the point of disinterest. News that almost half the UK population now uses Facebook, 30 million, is mind-boggling. What is even more daunting is that more than half of them use Facebook daily. Haven’t they got better things to do?

It’s not just the UK. France is reporting 20 million users and Italy 16 million. No wonder businesses are now jumping on board trying to attract the interest of a massive market of people that use Facebook as their conduit to the internet as well as their friends. And there lies the conundrum. Social networking is all about social interaction with ‘friends’ but how long before over-commercialization starts turning people away.

The way Facebook works is viral. The only way you can view somebody else’s entries is by becoming a member yourself. That’s how The Insider got hooked in. Then begins the pressure of having something that others can view so you don’t feel square of left out. What follows is the inevitable flood of ‘friend’ requests from people in your past, not always a good thing, and people you’ve never heard of.

If your ‘friends’ have children that also request to be friends with you (apparently it’s cool to amass thousands of friends like some sort of social status rating) then you suddenly find you are connected to loads of teenage girls. Probably not the sort of image an aging male should be generating!

hen comes the inevitable flood of comments on the ‘wall’, requests to compete in ‘Scrabble’ competitions online, the thousands of baby photos, book recommendations, daily routines broadcast online. Aaaaargh, the list is endless, and who really cares? 

However, the killer blow for The Insider was receiving a request from one real friend to view a video. Unfortunately, that friend’s list of friends had been accessed by some malevolent piece of software that then infected my list of friends and so on. At least on my own PC I am able to protect myself from viruses, bots, trojans et al, but on Facebook I have to rely on protection at the source that apparently did not exist.

Closing down the account was the only viable option, but even that is not possible. It just goes into limbo until somebody sends you another link to their Facebook account and bang, before you know it, it’s back, like a recurring nightmare.

Privacy is something that we should all cherish but unless you know how to make use of the privacy settings on Facebook and other sites you may find vital facts being made available to anyone that knows how to get it or simply request it.

Mashable reported that Facebook announced an update to its platform in a January 14 blog post that would allow Facebook apps and other external websites to access this information if the user gave them permission. Mobile phone numbers and addresses were given a permission category separate from “Access my basic information” that would ask users to approve third-parties to “Access my contact information”.

Controversy over the new feature is the latest in a long history of Facebook’s dubious privacy policies. Facebook recently took the opportunity to defend its policies in a 26-page response to the FTC’s proposed privacy policy framework. Recently, the social network rolled out a trial format of its privacy policy that is easier for consumers without legal backgrounds to understand.

Well, that would probably be the vast majority of users one would expect. There were also reports that employers were viewing Facebook for potential employees and even a case where the employer demanded access to a prospect’s profile presumably to see what they got up to in their private lives.

Most social networking sites are free and they have to make money somehow. The service you’re signing up for could simply be tracking your clicks for their own internal measurement tools, but it could also be gathering data to sell to marketers and advertisers. It could be selling your contact information to a third party, as well.

Since the entire goal of social networking is to help you connect and communicate with other people, the privacy settings on most default to ‘Wide Open’. Macworld put it succinctly in a recent article stating that, “maintaining privacy on social networks is like hanging your dirty laundry on a highway billboard and asking your friends to look. While you can maintain some degree of privacy on social networks, it takes a lot of effort and is often contrary to the goals of the services. Remember these services a free because they are selling access to you.”

Most ignore scrolling through miles of legalese and click on the “I Agree — Sign Me Up!” button without reading a single word of what they’re agreeing to. Most of the time, there are no negative consequences, but every now and then, not knowing what you’re getting into can end up biting you.

It’s down to ‘user beware,’ but for this particular user, it’s more a case of what you don’t know about should be avoided.


Posted 03-03-2011 8:56 AM by The Insider

Comments

Ramkumar JHS wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-03-2011 1:40 PM

I completely agree to the aspect that currently there is a thin line or may be no line between providing the minimum required information in these networking sites in order to be able to connect well with your friends community versus securing your privacy.

Gary Horn wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-04-2011 3:15 PM

It seems to me that Facebook is simply the newest opportunity for certain people to exploit an innocent and unaware audience.  The industry will eventually catch up with these exploiters, who will simply move on to the next opportunity.  This has always been the case.

For me, the benefits (being able to have current information about my children's lives) are worth the risks.  I'll probably make some mistakes and learn the hard way, but I will learn.

I think the best we can do is deal with the obvious risks.  There is no utopia.

Svetlana Djokic wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-06-2011 6:03 PM

I absolutly disagree with you. I belive that the new times have came and that new generations have they own way of thinking. I do not think that they are innocent and unaware of bad sides of FB, i belive that they don't care about them. I think that the new way of thinking is to connect and through that conection to widen their knowledge and expirience. In the meantime, if someone looked at their profile and misused their information, they don't care. The ratio between risk and benefit is too small. And don't forget that they are the ones that puts the info on the web for all to see, so they know what they are showing to the world. Soon, the time will come that if you are not defined in the social networks you are past tense. That is not bad nor good, that is just new time.

Tim Chambers wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-07-2011 12:19 AM

Facebook is still immature. I use it. I also use Twitter and LinkedIn. All the sites are like siloes or walled gardens. There is no clear winner yet because no single site has anywhere close to a comprehensive model of identity. Have a look at en.wikipedia.org/.../List_of_social_networking_websites - I'm not satisfied with any of them.

Gary Horn wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-08-2011 10:50 AM

Svetlana, I agree with many of your observations and insights.

Mohamed Maher wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-13-2011 4:33 AM

@Tim

More than 500 Million users (3rd biggest country in the world) is for sure not a small website

Social networks by design (transparency, equality) are the other side of the coin for corporates (security, hierarchy)

Corporates need to see opportunities and adapt with this major change (all of new millinea are used to facebook and can make good use of it)

they don't read email because they are online all of the time via facebook status and twitter

Tim Chambers wrote re: Facebook frightens me
on 03-14-2011 6:17 PM

@Mohamed

I am under no illusion that Facebook is small. But I stand by my claim that it is grossly immature. I believe there is an opportunity for a site to emerge that would represents "Facebook with adult supervision." Drug dealers have users. I want a site where I can be a mature citizen. Maturity doesn't preclude play. But Facebook is a lousy platform for serious, meaningful discussion.

As for email, there's no risk it will die soon. Much work is still done via email - in corporations and in academia. I will always prefer writing letters via email, and there is still a place for printed and handwritten notes and letters when a personal touch and a permanent artifact is desired.

As for Twitter. It's been called "Facebook without the users." Twitter still doesn't have a clear business plan. Do they know what they want to be when they grow up? I don't think so. Don't get me wrong. I love to twitter. I love reading tweets. But Twitter is like a pool a million miles wide and one inch deep. It's not a social media platform because it is so one-dimensional.

And don't get me started on corporations: Faceless behemoths that have no personality and thus no genuine presence in social media. The Cluetrain Manifesto is as true today as it was when it was written in 1999. Business has been painfully slow to adapt. The revolution could take a whole generation.

The Insider wrote Big brother 'snooping' (and sister, wife, girlfriend, father....)
on 07-22-2011 6:30 AM

With all the coverage The Insider has given to privacy issues you would think he was obsessed by it.

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